Anyone who knows me can tell you that I have always wanted to be a wife and a mother, so in many ways I’m living the dream! ☺️ But if I have to be completely honest, this dream has not been all it’s made out to be! I blame my mother for this…and my aunts,… Continue reading Moms lie!
I never quite understood how much my mother loved me until the day I held my Choc in my arms for the very first time! Like, I knew she loved me…but I actually had no cooking clue just how much! My mother and I had an awesome relationship, she was strict, no nonsense but she… Continue reading I remember you Mama, in a happy way!
So remember how I was taking responsibility for standing in my own way? Before you wreck yourself!!! Yes well, after that little episode I decided I needed to take some decisive action to put me back on track and in the direction of my goals- being the best version of myself! So I’ve made some decisions!… Continue reading Press the restart button!
My life has changed so much in the last couple of months. I thought I was ready, I thought I was prepared but actually I had no idea what was about to come! Basically my days start at 4:30am and end with me unintentionally passed out mid conversation with the baby father at around 9pm.… Continue reading Before you wreck yourself!!!
Guys! Seriously, humans never cease to amaze me! So, after posting my article on body shaming, someone highlighted that my husband loved me then (as in he married me FAT!) Too fat! Too thin! As if for some reason fat girls aren’t worthy of love? Fat girls don’t deserve to be happy, fat girls can’t… Continue reading Too fat to be beautiful or to be loved!
So last year we had a tombstone unveiling for my grandparents who passed away a few years ago. They lived in Limpopo and I have the fondest memories of going back there to visit as a kid. Most of the people who live there had not seen me since around the period my mom died… Continue reading Too fat! Too thin!
Body shammers AKA self proclaimed ministers of health… Ever dealt with those kind of people? Let me tell y’all a little story… So, growing up I was always the “fat” kid. My cousins and friends were skinnier and taller. funny enough, was the most comfortable and confident person I knew. But society teaches us that… Continue reading This is my body and I’m sticking to it!- written by Zamangwe Zwane